I’m about 60% on the way to success with my efforts to change channels with the morning, evening and weekend cable news shows when the interrupting and talking over each other goes on for 10 seconds.
I finally realized those talking heads are ridiculous, their offenses are ridiculous and that I am equally ridiculous for tolerating it.
As one who interviews artists like you, I have experienced the disasters that occurred when I interrupted my guest mid-sentence. I cut them off just before they said something compelling, or we were talking at the same time as they revealed something revelatory.
But you the interviewee have the ultimate power when you’re being interviewed by the “Interrupter Interviewer.”
First, a reality check: are your answers compelling, interesting, focused, concise and specific? Are you rambling? Do you speak “audience language,” or do you use insider, industry jargon? Exactly what is Sonata Allegro form?
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But, back to the other reality. When you find yourself being interrupted in the middle of making salient points in a concise manner, here is your strategy.
All interviewers, and especially radio interviewers, fear silence. When you go quiet, they freak out. They will either talk even longer, or they will get the hint, shut up and let you speak.
At the end of each interruption, smile externally and internally and then remain quiet.
Eventually, they will get the point.
If not, politely ask if you can have a chance to give and complete your answer. “May I finish?” When they say, “yes,” tell your story.
When they hear and “get” that you are a highly competent and interesting guest, they will likely lay back and let you speak. (After all, you are making them look good by being an excellent guest.”)
What motivates the “Interrupter Interviewer” to interrupt?
Insecurity…selfishness…narcissism: the interview is not about you: it’s about them showing off their vast wisdom and knowledge. They love hearing themselves speak. Who wants to compete with that?
The point of the interview is for you to be heard. In this interview situation, no one is listening, including the “Interrupter Interviewer’s” audience.
That’s why your silence is golden.
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